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Here's the Deal...
If you're looking for something for nothing, I'm not your girl. Please don't waste my time (and yours) by thinking you can manipulate me into talking dirty to you or turning my cam on for free. Ain't gonna happen. I have heard every line. Trust me, there is nothing you can come up with that I can't see through. There are plenty of places online you can go to if you're looking for free sex chat. Try www.icuii.com. (If I had a nickel for every time someone asked me "so what do you like sexually?" I'd be a rich woman!)
I'm happy to chat outside of video BUT I must insist that for every hour you spend chatting with me that you spend at least 15 minutes in video. The number of chatters I have in a night is getting out of hand so I think its only fair that regular viewers get more chat time. Unfortunately there is only one of me and I only have two hands. It is simply not practical to spend 10 minutes in video once a month and then chat with me every single night in between shows. Its not personal. Its a time management thing.
Viewers get undivided attention. If I'm in a show, please wait quietly until I'm done. Don't get all hot and bothered because I'm not paying attention to you. When I'm finished, I will let you know. Asking "are you done yet?" every 5 minutes will not make the show finish any sooner. When you are in video, you will appreciate that you have me all to yourself :)
I am not here to find a boyfriend, soulmate, or even a tennis partner. If you're looking for someone to 'fall in love' with you, may I recommend one of the Russian or Romanian girls who is looking for a green card? Everyone wants to be 'special' but at the end of the day, what is really special to me is someone who respects me, and my time. If you don't get this, you obviously need a different sort of girl. The kind of viewer I want realizes that my time is valuable and appreciates me for who I am. I have wonderful relationships with many regular viewers that I cherish and enjoy thoroughly. However, I have no intention of meeting any of my viewers off cam. Fantasy and reality do not generally mix well. And seriously.... ask yourself... would you REALLY be interested in a girl that would say 'yes?' If so, do a search for "really dumb, naive cam girls who are looking to die young and beautiful."
This is my job. And before you go off on me with the "you're all about the money" rant, just stop and think for a minute. Most successful people do what they love. I wouldn't be doing this if I didn't enjoy it. You don't go in to your doctor and say "you only want my money!' do you? But some of you act as if it's a crime for me to charge for it. I am very good at what I do and I am worth it. If I don't charge for it, I can't sit here all day long playing with myself. I too have bills to pay. If all of this comes off as cold and hard to you, I'm sorry you feel that way but we probably aren't a good match anyway. You must keep one foot firmly planted on this side of the reality fence for this to work.
Speak up! When you're in a show, LET ME KNOW what you like, what you don't like, what turns you on, what you've always wanted to see. I have many skills and talents but as yet, mind reading is not one of them. You let me know what you're in the mood for, and I'll take care of the rest. My pleasure is greatly enhanced by knowing that I'm blowing you away so please give me feedback. If you have something special in mind, let me know and I'll try to accommodate your request. It's rarely too much trouble and I love all the creative and erotic ideas you guys come up with so don't be afraid to ask. You'll be glad you did :)
Buy the time you need. It is EXTREMELY rare that a viewer has time left over at the end of a show. What is infinitely more common is that the time is up and he's only just started to get down to serious business. This puts me in the awkward position of having to decide if I inturrupt you or if I give my video away for free.
I consider myself a pretty open minded person so I'll try most things. I'm here to enjoy myself so if it's fun and feels good, I'll do it. My general rules are: no anal, no fisting, nothing that requires a vet, a toilet or a babysitter. I'm a lousy sub but a wicked whip wielding mistress. Other than that though, I'm open.... just ask!
That's it :) If you have any questions, just ask next time we're chatting.
"A man is only as old as the woman he feels"
- Groucho Marx (1895-1977)
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